HOW TO BE LESS BORING AND BE MORE INTERESTING

We all are born amazing. Nobody in this world is ever boring. But sometimes, due to certain situations and lack of proper communication skills we are not able to convey ourselves, which makes us damn boring. So, here we'll be going over a few tips to be more interesting in participation. Now, it doesn't guarantee that those people who already find you boring would have a changed perspective on you. Because your first impression is the biggest game, and you had already played it on them.

1. BE A GOOD LISTENER:- Now, trust it or not, people in this world, all of them will claim to be good listeners and tell that they get bored of people who talk much, but in reality, all of them love to talk. Everyone is interested in talking about themselves. Listening, lol, nobody likes that. Now if you let them talk about themselves and react to their things naturally they would find interest in you. Take examples in your life too. Suppose you are interested in telling your friend a long story. Sometimes, that person would even walk away in disgust which would leave you shaking. But if there is someone who is finding interest in your story and reacting to it naturally, you would be more leaned to that person. The same is the case everywhere. The more you listen, the more you become interesting. Now it doesn't mean to react according to them or take their side always. Do it naturally, if you agree, you should agree, and where you disagree be bold to address them. 

2. DO NOT CHASE:- When you are chasing someone blindly, it gives them authority. That authority means that they are dominating the relation between you both. They are the ones who will decide when to talk and where to talk because you are always ready. Chasing comes with fear, the fear of losing friends. You are always scared that you'll lose touch with them or you need validations that others are giving you attention. Never be scared of losing people or validation. Do not be scared of having zero friends. You are amazing as told earlier and whenever someone meets you, they will always assume you to be amazing. Now, if you are ready to lose your self-respect and chase them, it would prove that you chase everyone. And if you are chasing it means that no one likes to talk to you, which in turn will make them repel you. So, keep your esteem high. Talk with confidence and trust me, the person you are talking to is the same amount of amazing as you are. So, treat everyone in an equal manner. This will make them assume that you are a next-level game.

3. BREAK THE BARRIER:- Now this might get you a whole lot of attention because most people suck at this point. Breaking the barrier simply means to go beyond your limits in a certain conversation. Whenever you are talking to a person, you are mostly giving leftover rehearsed replies to which they are already prepared. Because the majority of people do that. When you give them something real and exciting, this gives them a small breakout from a normal conversation. Some guys while talking to girls get shy and do not use cuss words. But trust it or not, the girl you are talking to with is a similar cuss monster as you are and is the same being as you. Now, this shyness is of no use when two people are on the same level. So, if you use cuss words in a normal conversation, this might give them a few seconds shock to learn your boldness and they will like it, that you are being real because real people talk like that. So, not only using cuss words but many other day to day things make it easy. Show people what you really are rather than faking a good and nice person. 

4. BE MYSTERIOUS:- As mentioned earlier, people love themselves and thus they like to talk about themselves. Now, this way they expose their lives to you and you know to get them better. But that turns out to be no reason for you to think about them. But the person who is amazing and getting attention all other ways, if tries to not reveal much about themselves gets more thinking by other people. Now, this doesn't mean to hide everything intentionally but it means to project mysteriousness. There are several ways to do this. Your clothing, your energy, and everything matters. But a much important thing is, how much you are revealing about yourself. Unnecessary reveals are boring. Telling about yourself even not being asked about it is stupid. Yes, if asked then it's a good thing, but if not asked and then you are spreading your sorrows and sufferings, makes you look like an idiot. So, trying to tell people who you are, dominates them because now they are the judge. So, instead of telling try asking more. 

5. HAVE A GOOD HUMOR:- Now you don't need to be a comedian. Someone who is forcing jokes on others is definitely boring. So, instead of forcing jokes, try to laugh at jokes of others. And coming back to you, your humor should be natural. Believe it that you are not the one being paid to entertain them. No one likes forced entertainment while you are even not getting paid for it. So, it's better to stop trying to make people laugh and putting efforts you should go with the flow. Jokes have to be natural and arriving with the situation. Even in your answers try to be a bit playful. Playful replies are fun. Rather than giving straight forward replies, you should be playful. Now, it doesn't mean to be playful all the time. This game is also meant to be natural and going to be with the flow of situations. Even when you are at parties or gatherings, try to laugh at jokes of others, rather than becoming a clown to get everyone's attention. 

This whole thing in a nutshell arrives at just being yourself. Who you really are. The key to any social issue is being yourself. So, enjoy your life, be the Emperor.